For the First ime since infertility…..


I’m going to be an Auntie!!

Yes my eldest sister is expecting, again!!
The Next shock – Due on Christmas Day!!

I’m incredibly happy for her and also for my 5 year old niece who is very excited to be a big sister! I wish them all the happiness in the world and pray for the best possible future for all 4 of them…

No Buts…. all I would like to say to my beautiful sister is…

‘If I need time or space or if I seem off or just plain miserable, please don’t take offence or think I’m not over the moon for you. I am. I am proud. And I will be the world’s best auntie as I try to be already. Really, it is not personal.

I just hate your uterus’




  1. Hi Jilly – thanks for following our blog (heartache to hope). I also recently found out I’m going to be an aunt again. I already have a nephew, but it was before my husband and I started TTC. It’s so hard to fight the feelings of sadness and jealousy while wanting to just be so happy for your siblings. I totally get it. I feel your pain. Sending good thoughts your way. Let me know if you ever want to talk :-). Xoxo Jenn

  2. I know that kind of feeling, I feel the same everytime I knew someone around me was expecting, I’m happy 4 them but I feel a little bit jealousy n sad 4 myself 😭
    Btw, thank you 4 following my blog 🙏

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